How do you make an impossible choice?

Heather Heying July 19, 2022 8910
A woman wrote to me this week, in a quandary. She is a mother, and like the vast majority of mothers, she loves her children fiercely and completely. She goes by Quinn. She and her family have lived in more than one place, and now find themselves in the country that I was born to, and which I call home: the United States of America. But this great country of ours is forcing her to make choices unlike any that have come before.
What follows are Quinn’s words; I have added a few scant links. She wrote them to me, and is allowing me to share them with you. What can we do for her, for her son, for all of her family, and for all of us?